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| Names are withheld for confidentiality.
Marilyn
helped us save our marriage. She helped us understand
that marriages dont work, people work at being married.
Her direct style of working with us helped us make immediate
changes.  |
Things
are going well. I am still working on your suggestions
and know that I can make the changes I want in my life.
It will just take time and determination. |
Thanks
for all your help. I now know that I am the only one who
can get control of my anger and that no one can make me
mad if I decide not to let them. Life is more in control
now
or perhaps it is me who is more in control. |
I
didnt really like to hear some of the things you
said to me but I have been working on letting go of my
desire to control. As you said; my daughter must live
with the consequences of her own decisions and it wasnt
my decision for her to marry so young and have a child.
I am trying not to rescue her. My husband is happy that
so much of my conversation does not focus on my daughters
family but on our life, our relationship and our plans. |
I
thought there was something very wrong with me that suddenly
having a lot of money was so stressful. Everyone, including
me, thought it would just be fun. You helped me focus
on the heavy responsibility of choosing charities, family
members and projects to support and to acknowledge that
my anger at peoples greed was normal. I am glad
I can call you whenever I feel overwhelmed and you will
help me put things in perspective. |
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